我们都知道人的本性都是一样的,很多时候对于人影响的就是后天的习惯,一个人没出息不是没有原因的,今天天道教育就来讲讲哈佛大学研究出来的一个人变成废柴的九大原因.

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  一、犹豫不决；Indecision
  比鲁莽更糟糕的是犹豫不决。
  What is worse than recklessness is hesitation.
  像墙头草一样摇摆不定的人，无论其他方面多么强大，在生命的竞赛中总是容易被那些坚定地人挤到一边。
  雷厉风行难免会犯错，但比什么也不敢做强。怀特·黑德说：“畏惧错误就是毁灭进步。”
  Those who sways with every wind are just like the grass on the top of a wall,no matter how powerful,are always easy to be defeated by those who has a strong belief.
  Act vigorously and resolutely will inevitably make mistakes,however,is better than doing nothing."The fear of error is the destruction of progress,"said Whitehead.
  二、拖延；Procrastination
  很多时候拖延就是逃避问题和懒惰。
  Most of the time procrastination is to escape from a problem and laziness.
  著名思想家罗曼·罗兰说：“懒惰是很奇怪的东西，它让你以为那是安逸，是休息，是福气；但实际上它所给你的是无聊，是倦怠，是消沉。”
  The famous thinker-Romain Rolland said“Laziness is a strange thing,it makes you feel that your situation is comfort,is a rest,is a blessing;but in fact it is boring,tired,depressed.”
  三、三分钟热度；Brief period of enthusiasm
  世界上有80%的失败都源于半途而废。
  80%of the failure is due to give up halfway in the world.
  几乎所有的人都有过“雄心勃勃地制定计划，心灰意冷地放弃计划”的经历。
  Most of people had the experience of making plans ambitiously,and then had to give up in despair.
  四、害怕拒绝；Fear of rejection
  厚重而脆弱的自尊。
  Heavy and fragile self-esteem.
  大多数时候，我们在人际关系中感受到的“痛”，都和“感到被拒绝”有关。
  Most of the time,the pain that we go through in our interpersonal relationships is always in connection with"you think you were rejected".
  五、自我设限；Self-handicapping
  杀死自己的潜能力。
  Kill your latent ability.
  拉罗什富科说：平庸的人总是在抱怨自己不懂的东西。
  La Rochefoucauld said:mediocre people are always complaining about things they do not understand.
  六、逃避现实；Escape from reality
  逃避现实者更愿意营造一个属于自己的小世界。
  Escapists prefer to create their own little world.
  人的悲剧在于眼高手低。
  People's tragedy is they have a great ambition but puny ability.
  七、总找借口；Excuses
  错不在我。
  It is not my fault.
  人一旦犯了错，反应常常是自我辩护。
  Once people made a mistake,the first reaction is often self defense.
  八、恐惧；Fear
  谨小慎微的且懦弱。
  Timid and cowardly.
  九、拒绝学习；Refuse to learn
  你不是寂寞，只是不想学习。
  You are not lonely,just don't want to learn.

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